Because

Could you somehow let people know that due to
(The man of the family not doing his job) this is what these women had to do to feed there children.
And list the name of the person who left the wife and children and would not help with the children’s care.
They don’t have to be married just being the dad
Means they need to give financials. If they are on drugs and alcohol or is abusive they can’t see the children.