If being a total expert was knife through butter of male violence

When you have encountered violence at the hands of a man, you can’t see the wood for the trees… society can’t see the wood for the trees… and when you hear a total expert in her field forensically dismantle misogyny, it’s empowering and enthralling to listen to…. And it’s not emotionally it’s scientific and psychological analysis… it’s the cold light of day. The best bit is… all this time.. I was t stupid or weak, I was just in a web bigger than me and the crime analyst helped me see it and forgive myself.