I know you ask for thoughts Laura, but this letter screams something at me. Laura states that it looks like Brian’s mother infantilised him. But what I see is a desperate, enabling, jealous, co-dependent, deeply flawed parent who is the CREATOR of a narcissist ( abuser) . She tells him essentially that he can do no wrong. ( a lie, which creates a narcissist). She describes how she will enable his mistakes and errors. She will cover for him, break him out of gaol and bury bodies for him. This isn’t a love letter. It’s a damage admission. An insecure, weak and enabling parent who is jealous of her son’s relationship with Gabby. I find Brian’s mother totally repulsive in this revelation and her extraordinary justification and lack of insight. These kinds of parents create abusers. They are fawners, sycophants, manipulators. What an awful situation. I feel so sorry for Gabby’s family. This is a nightmare within a horror story.