Laura I need to thank you so much, you have saved me.
The first time I saw you was years ago on the Jonbennet Ramsey discussion, along with several other expert opinions on what probably happened and who murdered that poor little beautiful girl.
However, you really made a massive impression on me with your Madeleine McCann podcasts!
I was relieved to actually find out there is a British highly qualified police person who has the guts and determination to stand up and call it!
You are the only one that has honestly held your hand up to fight for what’s right & appear to be one that will not in any circumstances fall into corruption.
I have so much admiration for Colin Sutton, who spoke out about the Maddie investigation and why he didn’t take the lead for it, due to SY/O.Grange ignoring the ground zero rule!
After listening to your podcast with Jim & Lisa you had me totally zoomed in with your outspoken fact, empathy & care with your passion and force to do what’s right & bloody well fight!
Thank God, one person “you!” have the gumption to take it out of the park, kick shit to the Kirb and fight! Please do not change and allow the bigwigs to pull you down 🙏 I do worry for your safety, so please keep safe in this corrupt evil world we now live in ❤️
After Maddie, I joined all podcast apps & listen to you, Jim & Lisa so much, when I’m doing housework etc; rather than listen to music.
I have to say, thank you so much from the bottom of my heart 💕
I have been in an abusive relationship that took me years to get out of!
But I did and had 2 young children and did it! It wasn’t physical abuse it was mental abuse.
I am the strongest person you could ever meet and nobody would ever think I could of ever been in that situation, but I was and for 13yrs!!
So many people disregard that kind of abuse, because you don’t have bruises or injuries to show for it!
I had it all and was the envy of so many that wanted what I had and my life!
In reality, none of them would want my life, having a huge, beautiful house, landscape garden, brand new car every 2-3yrs and the wining & dining!
Sounds amazing, however behind closed doors was a sad awful different story I could write a book about!
I was told I couldn’t leave, look what I’ve got, I left the safety of my parents and never paid a bill in my life, so how would I cope if I left?
I was told this over & over and I believed it and to be honest I loved what I had!
I also didn’t want to leave because of it all either!!
On the outside I had it all (but always remained grounded & played it down & have never been bought into the designer world, but would have several different color jumpers I liked from a general store!)
It took me 13yrs and the worry about me 2 children, I left and became a single parent and yes it was a struggle, but it came to a head that I’d rather live in a rabbit hutch with my kids than have what I had and be miserable every day of my life!
I actually have a good relationship with my ex and he is the most amazing father ever! I even get on with his wife number 4!
I was number 3!!
Isn’t that just an alarm bell - hello - DEFCON ONE!!
Then I meet the most amazing man ever, again highly qualified, this time a lot younger and I supported him through his last year In Uni and now married he supports me!
Best life ever and I know have even more than I had before!!
I am again the Queen bee! The envy of all, I have everything and this time soul mate love - to the point for yrs the envy love, people & friends would approach us and tell us they would love to have the relationship we have.
I had a baby late in life as he was the only child, his parents are amazing and the most amazing grandparents ever!
14yrs! Together and married 6yrs married with a child, my other 2 are adults, I have the world in my palm, loving life and BANG!
CHANGE!!
Iv haf 2yrs of the sane abuse as I had the last time, only this time the mental control is slightly different and there’s a physical abuse in the mix! I don’t get hit directly, I get thrown, pushed and prodded hard enough to Mark!
Looking back I’m stupid, it’s always been there but little and sonething you can write off with doubt?!?
It’s escalated massively in the last 2yrs and probably has from the start?
Now it’s so bad I’m again in a low unhappy state and this time it’s different!
The pushing, throwing and forehead against mine, through gritted teeth telling me how disgusting I am and look at me with laughter! Who would want you?
Howver, I’m strong enough to talk back and push his demons away!
I will fight back but he is bigger & stronger I have no chance, so I block the barges and the head to head wars with all I have!
This will sound mad but one time when he was trying to head barge me in bed, I was laying on my back and he was raging over me,, I arm blocked his body.
I held my arm up and tried to hold it straight and solid!
I didn’t realise my hand was clenched in a fist position as I held my arm straight stopping him getting in my face that was turned away from a nasty, gritted teeth and spitting angry at me.
He actually got so frustrated cause I’m not the meek and mild person I once was.
Out of the blue grabbed my clenched fist and hit himself in the forehead with it!
OMG! I was so shocked that he got my arm and jabbed himself in the face with my fist I burst out laughing and said - OMG, WTAF??
He was embarrassed and retreated!
So up to date I am in another abusive relationship and considering I need to get out.
Again I see it, although it’s different I still keep allowing chances. Only this time the physical is increasing so I know I’m in a spot of bother!
All I can say is LAURA RICHARDS and her podcasts I have now followed and listening to her campaign she is so pationate about, I can honestly say I’m now dealing with my shite!
Iv had the lowest few depressing months and with the increasing abuse I actually thought I needed to die!
It is only my 10yr old daughter that kept me here, cause I nearly took my own life because I thought I was put on this earth to just be abused.
I’m fighting my way through it big time!
Yes I’m still here and still taking the abuse but I’m ready to go and I’m keeping strong for our daughter!
I’m still at the giving chances stage and hoping he will change, yet know he won’t!
Laura you are giving me the strength in your podcasts to find my inner strength!
He hates you with a vengeance, and calls u out in arguments -
Oh cause Laura told you did she?
Yes she bloody did abd I know if I asked her for help as high up as she is she will be here and take your ass away!
I now Iv ranted on but I sincerely hope i can help others and will gladly come forward and help with your campaign!
You are giving me the inner strength to go on and be strong! 💪
Thank you 😊 I can find me I’m sure and I will be happy to promote it’s not just the beating or killing in an abusive relationship, the mental torture can be so bad and physical abuse that isn’t hitting or kicking that is so hard to prove.
This is so long I’m not going to re-read or spell check it’ was hard enough putting it here.
Thank you Laura you helped me to out this out there 💕